Hey ATFB Fam! valentines Day is right around the corner and I wanted to help you all out with a little gift guide. In this post, you’ll find some valentines day ideas for him, for her, together as a couple, or just yourself!

Sometimes finding the perfect gift for you man is hard, so read down below to find some goodies that you man may love this Valentine’s day! I broke it down into his/hers/together/yourself. Also, if an item is in his/her section and fits for your partner for the opposite gender go ahead and get it! I just tried to post any many ideas without saying the same thing over again!

Him:
1. Cologne: Does your man love to smell good? Or do you love the smell of cologne? Look no further, I asked Ivan a few of his favorite colognes and came up with this list. Burberry Touch, Nautica Voyage, Jimmy Choo Man, or anything Calvin Klein.
2.Weekend away: This is just the perfect gift if you two don’t get a lot of alone time and just need to recharge. Get an Airbnb or get a hotel with a Valentine’s Day package.
3. Cigars: Does your other half love smoking a cigar here and there? Well, this is the perfect gift! Total Wines has an awesome cigar selection, and if you don’t have any near you, try a local smoke shop/cigar shop.
4. Sweater: This is the perfect gift for your significant other who just loves fashion. A few top suggestions are a neutral color because that will go with everything. If you live in a colder climate I recommend a sweater with long sleeves, if you live in a cooler climate maybe a nice cardigan or zip up for even a short sleeve sweater or a thin sweater. A style that I have been liking is long sleeve and a V-neck and it has a little bit of a collar and buttons like this here or this.
5. Watch: This actually makes a great gift if your partner is always late LOL because this will sweetly remind them to be on time. If that isn’t a great explanation then this is just the perfect gift for somebody who loves accessorizing. I know a lot of people who love watches and collect them so this would be a great beginner gift and every year or every anniversary holiday add to the collection.
6. Cute boxers: This is a sweet but funny gift you can’t go wrong with the boxers, it is practical and you can get cute little designs and you can do hearts for Valentine’s Day you could do their favorite TV show puppies any animations, basically anything that reminds you of them.
7. Personalized Picture Frame: This is a sweet gift you can put your favorite picture in the frame and you can personalize it with a saying, for example, I love you, or just what you guys always say to each other and your partner can put it on their desk or in their house and it is just a sweet reminder that you are always there
8. Mug: This is the perfect gift for any coffee or tea and lover and will get great use. And you can also customize it or if you want to do a different route you can always get a mug that has a funny saying on it that will have them chuckling every single time they drink out of it and they will think of you
9. Sweatshirt: You can never go wrong with a sweatshirt. It will keep your other half warm, and can be used year around! You can get one with a funny saying as well.
10. Monogrammed Cufflinks: This is the cutest idea if your man needs to dress professionally for work every day. Check out Things Remembered here.
11. Coupon book: Homemade gifts are always the best and a coupon book is just the cutest. You can put some cute thing with them they’re like I/O dinner, date night on me, massage on me, a night of no cleaning, or even better skipping a shopping all day with me. You can get creative with a homemade coupon book and you can customize it with the cute little saying or photo stickers.
12. Jewelry: This is perfect for your favorite fashion partner. You can definitely get them things they have that then eyeing, things remembered has some really cute guy accessory. You could even do you love eternal rings or eternal bracelets if your partner has their ears pierced you can do earrings
13. Beard set: This is the best gift for anybody that has a beard. You can get a full set, or you can make your own. Just add beard oil, shampoo, conditioner, brush, and wax!
14. Whiskey holder: If your partner just loves having a nice glass of whiskey after a long hard day this is for him, or even her!
15.Favorite drink: Does your partner love sitting back after a long hard day and drink wine, whiskey, beer? If so this is the perfect gift! You can get them, their favorite drink, and then add in some of their favorite snacks. It is the best way to unwind.

Her:
1. Perfume: Who doesn’t love smelling good you can never go wrong with a gift with perfume. But a few of my favorite perfumes is this one here and this one and this one.
2. Spa basket: This is a perfect gift for anyone who just needs to sit back and relax. Check out this cool one I found here.
3. Bath bombs: Who doesn’t love just sitting back and taking a nice relaxing bath. Lush has so many good bath bombs that basically fizzle in the tub out and if you don’t want to go that route you can also do a different kinda bath bomb that has a surprise in the middle. There are some that have jewelry in the middle of the bath bomb that comes out when the bath bomb finishes. It is a nice surprise and a very nice mystery.
4.Preserved Eternity Rose: I saw this on Amazon and instantly fell in love. Check it out here. I just think this is so romantic and sweet! I love the different colors too.
5. Jewelry: This is just so cute and has a special meaning behind it too. What is better than showing your love with a cute little note too? Check this necklace out here.
6. Spa day: This is the perfect gift for anyone who loves being pampered, or just needs a break from their crazy life to be pampered. Check out Envy Massage, or Hand and Stone.
7. Flowers: You can never go wrong with flowers. Find out your partner’s favorite flower and surprise your partner with the flowers in the morning or get them delivered to their job, or placed them in the car so when they get into it there’s a sweet surprise.
8. Chocolate: If your partner has a sweet tooth you cannot go wrong with some chocolate. You could do you chocolate covered pretzels, chocolate covered strawberries and you can get that from Edible Arrangements. Or you could just get them a heart filled with chocolate. Or if you want to do something a little bit different make your own candy or chocolate bouquet yet. You can also do a little combination of all of their favorite candies or chocolates and put that in a little basket with them with little knickknacks.
9. Candles: This is the perfect gift for any candle lover! You can even make it a twist and purchase candles that have different meanings! Like lavender makes you relax! Or does she love cupcakes? Get a cupcake scented candle.
10. Coupon book: Homemade gifts are always the best and a coupon book is just the cutest. You can put some cute thing with them they’re like I/O dinner, date night on me, massage on me, a night of no cleaning, a night of shopping. You can get creative with a homemade coupon book and you can customize it with the cute little saying or photo stickers.
11.Wine or favorite drink: Does your partner love sitting back after a long hard day and drink wine, whiskey, beer? If so this is the perfect gift! You can get them, their favorite drink, and then add in some of their favorite snacks. It is the best way to unwind.
11. Sunglasses: This is the best gift for any fashion lover! Quay has amazing sunglasses, check out their site here. I love this brand because they are so durable! Or check out Hautelook.
12.Purse: One of my favorite gifts is getting a purse and it’s because I use a person every single day. I want something that is pretty practical but very fashionable. So a few recommendations that I have and that I would like you guys to think about because it may come in handy is: if you want to pick the correct color look for your partners favorite color, or pick a neutral color or the color of the here which is the coral color. You also want to think about size, does your partner carry around a lot of stuff like I do you like, or do they carry light? That will help determine the size of the purse that you want to get. Another thing to think about is to be a strap, does your partner at like to put their arm through the handles? Does your partner at like to keep the handles at their elbow? Or does your partner like to have options? This will help determine if you need a longer strap or long shoulder handles or shorter handles. Another thing to consider is if you want outside pockets personally I do like getting outside pocket that is just because I like to keep my phone and keys on the outside because that means easy access. Another thing to consider is if your partner cares if there is the zipper or not and if there are pockets or compartments on it the inside to place items. I know that there are a lot of things to consider but you are using a person basically every single day so it’s good to think about everything in the purse because they are on the expensive side as well.
13. Framed photo: Put in your favorite picture of you two, and get it personalized. Look a Things Remembered here for some cute ideas.

Gifts together:
1. Spa Day: Do you both have busy jobs or lives in general? I think having a spa day is just the pampering you and your other needs just to relax and unwind.
2. Winery visit: Winery visits are always fun! Go somewhere you haven’t gone and eat some cheese! Also, some wineries do a Valentine’s day special! I know of a few in Jersey that do!
3. Dinner: Do you love trying new places to eat? Going out to dinner is just a fun event, but be sure to make reservations if need be!
4. Movies: Do you two love movies? A night out watching a good movie with good snacks is the best way to spend time with your loved one.
5. Cook dinner: This is so fun! You two can make your favorite meal together, drink some wine or beer and just relax and have fun.
6. Brewery: Brewery visits are so fun! It’s a nice way to find new places too! You can make it a nice day trip too! This is the perfect gift if you love trying and exploring new places and things!
7. Take a class together: This would be so fun, you get to spend time together and learn something new. Shoprite, Kings and some Bed Bath & Beyond do cooking classes. You can also do a yoga class, workout class, painting class together like paint and sip.
8. Weekend away: Do you and your significant other love find new places to stay? Well, a weekend away is just the perfect way to surprise your curious loved one. I live in jersey so I would pick somewhere drivable, the Poconos just sounds amazing! Get an Airbnb or even a hotel with a Valentine’s day package.
9. See a play: This is so fun! I have the PaperMill Playhouse in NJ and know that seeing a play is so fun and different! So go get tickets to a local theater near you and see something good.
10. Matching jewelry: I know this sounds so cheesy but I love it. LOL You can get matching necklaces, rings, bracelets, anything.

Gifts for yourself:
Spa day
Jewelry
Perfume or cologne
Mug
Subscription box
Purse or wallet
Dinner in with a movie and dessert
Anything you have been eyeing!

What are your plans for Valentines Day?

xo,

Melissa

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